Sorry Everybody
November 16, 2004
America is a peculiar place. As a country, we are usually atypical in our way of doing things. And I'll be the first to admit that many of those "things" are quite wonderful. Our "open marketplace of freedom" has long been the chip on our shoulder of cultural superiority. There is a reason why we are called "the land of opportunity". There is also a reason why people from other nations risk their lives to get here. Notwithstanding this reality, in all our "fabulousness" and "freedom", we have an uncanny propensity to exploit our liberties.
I am recently beset by what seems to be the extreme absence of the proper reverence and respect for the man we call our president. Our capacity to respect the office of the president isn't based on the countenance of one human being. If my ability to show respect for authority was based on amicability, I would surely be in jail right now, hauled off by some police officer I gave a piece of my mind. For if perfection was the rod against which we measured our Commander and Chief, we would surely be without a qualified leader for the task. What we must respect is the power and burden of the presidential mantle on behalf of an entire nation. It is not to be taken lightly, spoken of flippantly, or disregarded, no matter who is in office.
Freedom is a most beautiful thing. In fact, it is so beautiful that we as Americans often romanticize the idea of "freedom" to the point of extreme avoidance of (or un-consciousness from) the reality of what it really means to live in a free society. The "freedom" veil we live under is one that leads us to believe that America is a place where most anyone can presumptuously "do" whatever they choose and still get away with it. And unfortunately, these perceptions often ring true. Yet there is an unsettling haze of rebelliousness that has clouded the way we regard those authorities who have "charge" or "watch" over us. We have co-opted "freedom" as our right to be reckless. Today, that recklessness manifests itself in all matter of speech and hatred against a person who is inevitably our leader for the next four years.
On election day, writer James Lileks illustrated a profound truth when he recounted a teachable moment he had with his 4-year-old daughter post-voting:
"If John Kerry wins he won't be our president," Gnat said.
Ah, a teachable moment. No, honey. He will be our president. He will be the new president, and we will respect him.
"What does respek mean?"
Man, that is a good question. It means we treat him like a teacher or the pastor or a doctor. Someone we should listen to when they talk and someone who is important to everyone. Because he's the president, and we have to respect the job of president.
And here we have a simplistic sketch of something America lacks. It's one of our fundamental weaknesses: we don't respect authority. The illustration is no Rembrandt, but the concept is so simple, even a child can grasp it.
The idea of "respect" doesn't imply agreement or endorsement, but it does demand honor where honor is due. There is an interesting reality at work in this country that you won't find in many parts of the world. In America, it is perfectly acceptable and in fact, often encouraged to publicly berate and disrespect our nation's leaders. And while sites like "Sorry Everybody" may seem (forget "seem", they are) funny and perpetuate the whiny, pathetic, and downtrodden behavior of the average Liberal Bush-hater, these, among other public expressions of "displeasure" to the world are in fact more dangerous than we think.
A house divided against itself cannot stand. Anyone who has engaged in battle (of any sorts) knows that those with dissension in the camp are ill-equipped to fight. When we as Americans, let the world know that we are divided even in our respect and support for our leadership, we are admitting a weakness and therefore opening ourselves up for attack.
There are certain opinions that should remain spoken in a proper manner. The amount of published media filled with passionate abhorrance for the current administration is a testimony to the freedom that we have in this country. Everyone is certainly entitled to their opinion. In fact, that's what generally makes America "great". But even in our "greatness", we have fallen to a very low place. America is one of the few countries in the world that allows its citizens to "express" their opinions on government leadership with such vitriol. In many parts of the world, a person burning their leader in effigy (while in office) is a crime worthy of being gently escorted out of the country. And yet, here in America, we complain about civil liberties and freedom of speech yet our country allows people to simultaneously suck the government's teat while railing on its very existence. What complete and utter hogwash. To top this off, we even allow the people who have such animosity towards our government to still live here. We are truly a privileged society. Let us not forget that.
So I apologize world, for us being so shallow and uppity and spoiled and ungrateful and disrespectful and self-centered. I apologize that we spend more time and energy raking our governmental leadership across the coals of "damned if you do, damned if you don't standards" than we do lifting them up in prayer.
I apologize for our failure to recognize how completely embarrassing and silly we look when we heap manure on our own leaders who were elected according to our beloved democracy. I am sorry on behalf of those not mature enough to submit themselves to the electoral process.
I am sorry that we set a poor example of what citizenship is all about by calling our governmental officials expletives and epithets and everything but the names they were given. Perhaps one day we will come to realize that submission isn't submission until we submit.
On behalf of the whiny and the ill-informed part of America, I am truly sorry.
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Posted by Ambra at November 16, 2004 12:50 AM in Politics
Aw man, you missed your chance!
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Hee hee! Loved the pictures. It has inspired me to try it out myself, though yours will be difficult to top.
It was very magnaminous of you to speak on behalf of the "whiny and the ill-informed part of America", a shadowy subset of this country. It reminds me of the WIN campaign from back in the 70's: Whip Inflation Now. Today we have to deal with WIIPA, and a large amount of tissue paper will be needed to clean up the mess they make.