February 06, 2005
56 Years

Along with others, I too was saddened to hear of legend Ozzie Davis's passing last week. Every time one of our "greats" dies, I am always reminded of how quickly time flies. Only recently, Shirley Chisholm passed; then Johnny Carson died and we can be certain that 2005 will see more deaths. C'est la vie. What is difficult is not esteeming people so highly that they become "invincible." Nevertheless, we should take these things as major indicators of time. What saddens me the most is when it doesn't seem like there are many successors to the thrones. If we're not careful, my generation is bound to crap away the legacies.

We still have time.

What struck particularly struck me about Ozzie Davis is that he was married to his wife Ruby Dee for 56 years. Count'em five and six. That's something deserving of praise considering that I just heard some entertainment anchor comment that in Hollywood, "Marriage is the new dating." Let the Davis' be an example.

Posted by Ambra at February 6, 2005 10:42 PM

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What a beautiful couple! She is just fabulous.

Don't lose hope Ambra.
There is always hope.
Remember your rebels.

Donna

Posted by: Miz Booshay at February 7, 2005 05:40 AM


Mixed emotions about Mr. Davis. Positive side- fine actor, strong family man- Burt Reynolds, his co-star on the 1990s series Evening Shade, was effusive in praising him. On the other hand- could be counted on to support the kookiest causes. One of the Hollywood types who steadfastly maintained support of convicted Phila. cop killer Mumia Abu-Jamal. In spite of the facts. Or the U.S. Supreme Court refusing to hear his case again.

Posted by: Gerard E. at February 7, 2005 05:42 AM


C'est la vie? Au contraire, Ambra: c'est la morte.

(Sorry, my eight years of French occasionally come back to haunt me... I couldn't resist.)

My father died just a few days after my parents' 50th anniversary. We all knew he hung on to reach that milestone. There is something glorious in such steadfast relationships. They are examples to us all.

Posted by: Joan at February 7, 2005 09:05 AM


They are a great example of making a relationship work through it all!

Posted by: M. La Roi at February 7, 2005 09:41 AM


What struck particularly struck me about Ozzie Davis is that he was married to his wife Ruby Dee for 56 years. Count'em five and six. That's something deserving of praise considering that I just heard some entertainment anchor comment that in Hollywood, "Marriage is the new dating." Let the Davis' be an example.

Amen to that, Ambra! It is so rare for married couples... especially those in Hollywood... to last any longer than 5 years. That is pathetic! I greatly admire Ozzie and Ruby for not living by those standards. What classy people! :)

Posted by: Janna at February 7, 2005 09:49 AM


Of course he was married for 50+ years, he was married to RUBY DEE!

Posted by: Steven J. Kelso Sr. at February 7, 2005 11:08 AM


Yeah ... till we find out about the number of mistresses he had during that 'blissful' 56' ... Don't forget, America's favorite father, Bill Cosby, is in the midst of yet another extra-marital scandal. So, are we to assume that just because people don't get divorced, a marriage is successful or blissful? I think not.

Posted by: Qusan at February 7, 2005 02:09 PM


It is only the cynical disfunctional mind that would suggest that because a person has been married for 56 years, they had to have had an affair. What a sorry commentary on life!
Advocate

Posted by: advocate at February 7, 2005 02:13 PM


Got some bitterness towards marriage there Qusan? Believe it or not, there Ki>are people who are faithful in their marriages.

Sheesh. This is the stuff america's made of I guess...

Posted by: Ambra at February 7, 2005 02:15 PM


No bitterness :-) My aunt and uncle have been married longer than that and aren't as old. I seem to recall hearing some things about their marriage ages ago ... my point is that they stuck it out ... not that it was blissful and perfect and not that there weren't patches where maybe one or both of them may have done some things outside of the marriage. As I've watched some of my adult friends go through serious turmoil over finding out family secrets about their parents (mistresses, children and all kinds of things), I've just gotten a little bit more realistic about what really goes on in waaay too many homes.

Posted by: Qusan at February 8, 2005 11:56 AM


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